About me
AcquiredControl is a dedicated kink educator, facilitator, and community leader with over 18 years in the lifestyle. A board member of Houston EROS—the largest and most active BDSM group in Houston—he has attended over a thousand kink educational meetings and events, teaching numerous classes on topics ranging from negotiation and power exchange to impact, edge play, and being poly in kink.
At his core, AcquiredControl is a kink facilitator, going so far as to dig a grave in his backyard to help someone fulfill a “buried alive” fantasy. He is passionate about guiding others toward safe, informed, and fulfilling experiences. His dominant identity is shaped by control, care, and intensity—whether as a Caregiver, Sadist, Daddy, or Facilitator. Starting as a bottom before finding his voice as a Dom, he now thrives in energy-driven scenes, from primal takedowns to deep, physical impact play.
Beyond his personal practice, AcquiredControl is deeply embedded in the Houston kink community, regularly attending and hosting events. He values education, open dialogue, and creating spaces where newcomers and seasoned players alike can explore with confidence. Whether mentoring, teaching, or simply sharing experiences, he’s always eager to help others navigate the scene safely and authentically.
